Introduction : Why I started this blog.
Hi! Call me Stuly. I'm a Chinese born and bred in Singapore. I'm an attractive 31 year old heterosexual female. I'm still single and searching for Mr Right and my knight in shining armor. I enjoy love and sex. I am very liberal and uninhibited about sex. I feel that many of my fellow Singaporeans are unable to express themselves sexually both at the dining table as well as in bed. More open discussion sex may be good for those who associate sex with dirtiness, immorality and guilt. I cannot express my views about sex openly in Singapore as I may be labelled a whore and a slut who is a threat to other women's boyfriends and husbands. So I choose to discuss it online and explore sex between men and women in Singapore. Please join me and contribute your opinions and experiences.
There are many other blogs about love and sex already. Let's talk about it in the Singapore context. That would be more helpful to Singaporeans. Specific examples and stories about real people in daily life in Singapore would reflect that. I hope that by being as frank and honest as I can about how i feel about love and sex, I can set an example for other Singaporeans to follow in freely discussing a taboo subject.
My Sexual History
My father left us when I was still a child. My mother had to work very long hours to support us. She had little time to teach us the many things parent tell their kids. I learnt about sex at thirteen when I discovered a stash of blue movies and erotica that my father left behind. I viewed and read them over and over again and eventually masturbated to them countless times. They formed the basis of my sexual orientation and desires. When I was older, I was exposed to other views like being a virgin until I was married and sex being for the sake of procreation only. I finally arrived at a middle path between love and sex as the best policy for myself. It was a sensible and practical decision I made for myself without any religious feelings. I've no religion. I felt that as long as I didn't harm anyone, what happens between two consenting adults was their own business. If others feel they want to reserve their sexual favors only for their one and only future spouse, I can see the idealism in that. If some get involved in adulterous affairs, I don't condemn them. I can understand them having been down that road myself.
More about what turns me on the next time....
